You found out that the shy and introverted guy that you recently came across is a Cancerian. His birthday falls in between June 22 and July 23. He seems very diffident and reserved; but, you find him very charming, and want to have a relationship with him. Well, if you follow these careful steps, you are sure to win him over. Tips to Attract a Cancer Male Now, if you want to know him better, why not start by knowing the basic personality traits of the sign Cancer? This way, you will understand his behavior and even his expectations. That can help a great deal in attracting a Cancer male as well as forming a successful relationship with him. Win His Trust You must have noticed that the Cancer man is very reserved and does not open up very quickly. Although he is everyone's friend and may patiently listen to people for hours together, he may not speak out his mind or express his emotions easily. You need to gain trust of this man in order to know him. Cancerians also place loyalty at a high pedestal. Hence, you should prove your loyalty as a friend, and later as a girlfriend in order to win him and keep him forever. Support His Dreams He is very sensitive, and you need to try to understand him, his emotions and dreams when he expresses them. He appreciates a woman who is supportive of his dreams and ambitions. But, he also wants you to have dreams of your own and work towards fulfilling them. Avoid criticizing him, taunting him or making him a subject of practical jokes. Understand His Mood Swings and Emotions He is a man with strong and deep emotions. Beneath his tough exterior, lies a tender heart and emotions, that he will reveal slowly as time passes. You need to be the one who cherishes him and takes care of him. At the same time, he will also be highly prone to mood swings. Although the moodiness may appear unreasonable, you should never disregard it. Dress to Show Class As the clichéd phrase goes, first impression is the last impression. Therefore, you also need to dress appropriately to catch his eye. Cancerians are not exactly traditional, but, not even flamboyant. You need to wear something that is chic, appropriate and classy; something that will not embarrass you or him. Wearing silver jewelry is believed to have a positive effect on Cancerians. Dating a Cancer Man Now, once you have attracted the attention of a Cancer male and are heading towards a relationship, there are a few things that you need to know and follow in order to date him successfully. • Men born under the zodiac sign Cancer are often nostalgic and love reminiscing about their childhood. You can make him open up by asking about his past. • Cancerians are sentimental and they will appreciate if you express your feelings sincerely time and again. • If you want to get to know him better, arrange for a romantic candlelight dinner at home. Try and cook food yourself (gourmet dishes will surely please him), put on soft music, arrange flowers and set a soft mood. Try to make him feel at home and cozy as much as possible, and you are sure to win his heart. • You should remember that a Cancer man hardly forgets disloyalty (he may forgive it, but things won't be the same again). • He is emotional and clingy. You should try and sympathize with him and not brush off his sentiments as a sign of weakness. • Sensitivity and dreaminess are some of the most characteristic Cancer traits. He may talk about his childhood dreams and aspirations with you. Make sure you take them seriously. • Cancerians are very emotional. If you are adventurous and excessively practical, then he, is perhaps, not the best man for you. • If you notice he is suffering from his characteristic mood swings, it is wise to leave him alone, rather than probing more into the matter. Sarcastic comments will never help at this time. • He is basically shy and reserved. He may even prefer quiet evenings at a classy restaurant over a loud party. • In most of the cases, Cancer men are traditional, conservative and well, very close to their families (specially, their mother). Make sure you treat his family with respect. • Basically, a Cancer man is very loving, trustworthy and caring. If you love a quiet and secure life, he is simply the best mate for you. Last, but not the least, note that these men need to connect emotionally or mentally before heading to a committed relationship. They usually make good partners for a serious relationship or marriage as they are family oriented. So, you will surely treasure this man forever! Ciao!