first date questions
First Date Questions
Going on a first date? Confused with what questions should you ask on your first date? Here are some first date questions to help you.
- Do you have a pet name? How did you get it?
- What is your birthplace?
- Tell me about your family... Do you have siblings? What do they do? What do your parents do?
- Which school did you go to?
- Where did you grow up? Have you always lived in this city/state?
- Do you like pets? Ever had one?
- What is your birth-date/zodiac sign?
- Do you like (name of hobby)?
- If you could do one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
- What is your most cherished moment/memory with friends?
- What genre of music do you most relate to/genre of films do you like the most?
- What is your favorite color/sport/cuisine/color/song/etc.?
- What is your most cherished memory with your family/friends?
- If there is one moment you could relive, which would it be?
- What qualities in a person do you respect the most/dislike the most?
- Tell me one thing about yourself that you would like to change.
- Who are the three most important people in your life?
- Do you regret having done something in your life? What is it?
- Where do you see yourself five years from now?
- Are you happy with the way your life has turned out to be?
- Who was your first crush?
- Have you ever been on a blind date? How was your experience?
- Did anyone ever make a pass at you?
- What is your idea of a romantic date?
- What do you think is the most attractive feature in a man/woman?
- Were you ever in a serious relationship?
- What do you seek the most out of a relationship?
- What place does your life-partner hold in your life?
- What are your views about casual sex/one-night stands/ extramarital affairs?
- Family, friends or love - where does your priority belong?
- Never ask about your date's ex! NEVER EVER! Curious though you might be, make sure you never openly ask your date about his/her ex.
- If you think certain question may be too poky, or objectionable, or that your date may not be comfortable answering it, give your date the option of not answering. Don't leave it for the date to guess, say it's okay if he/she chooses not to answer.
- Be sensitive in your approach, and in the way you frame your questions.
- Be ready to answer yourself the same questions that you are asking your date. You cannot ask something and then refuse to answer it yourself! That's silly!
- Do not turn the date into an interview! Make sure to engage in a conversation and not just dwell upon questions and answers.