We cannot predict how our lives are going to turn out. What we can do is to turn the page and start with a new chapter and a fresh cup of coffee. While some people are lucky and some are luckier, it's a matter of perception when it comes to deciding if you truly have found the one you love. Maybe-maybe not, but who are we to decide if they were the ones we should have spent the rest of our lives with? Think about it, it's not like either of you are commodities that come with price tags. Since no one owns anyone, we all just hope to live with someone who let us be ourselves. But the problem crops up when they don't let you. When rules and guidelines are made, that make you feel like it's not love but a baseball match and you are the ball being bombarded with the bat. So you let go or make the other let you go, either way the relationship ends. Good riddance! However, some men, simply find themselves at the shorter end of the stick, when things fall apart, and they have no control over the situation. I may so dare to say, that today people are being used, while things are being loved instead. It's a popular saying, that 'He just wasn't good enough!', really? Which makes most men think, is there a scale from 1-10 of Goodness and Mediocrity? And what about those men, who have always given their everything into the relationship and yet failed? Therefore, who was not good enough for who? So many questions and not enough answers. Well here are some quotes for all the men out there, to help them get over their breakups, so that they can find someone new, someone better and start over. Think fish! The second way of looking and dealing with breakups is to let all them women know that there are more fish in the sea, and that the ones you left behind or the ones who dumped you are not the only ones you could, set your heart out for. Here are a few moving on quotes and sayings, that will help you feel better. "Someone wise once told me, when the pain of holding on is worse than the pain of letting go, it is time to let go." "I could have loved you once, and said it, but then you went away, and when you came back, love was a forgotten word, remember?" "Love has always been a game, but some people change the rules too much!" "Yes, I do know how it feels to let go of someone you truly loved, but, yes, you do have to do it once in a while." "I can't go back I know, but if I could, would I really want to?" "We all love best not those who offend us least, nor those who have done most for us, but those who make it easy for us to forgive them, and who will forgive us." "Our relationship is over, but there were more smiles than tears so it was worth it." "I'll never forget what you did to me and how you made me feel, but I will never let you know that I remember." "There is an end to all things, no matter how much we want to hold on to them." "Love can sometimes be magic; but magic can sometimes be an illusion." "Some day you will cry for me like I cried for you, some day you will miss me like I missed you, some day you will need me like I needed you, and some day maybe you'll even love me, but I won't love you cause I got over you." "Sometimes I lie awake, and I ask, 'Where have I gone wrong?' and then a voice says, 'This is going to take more than one night." "Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go." "I just need some space, to clear my head, to think about my life. With or without you." - Papa Roach from the song Decompression period. Well different people deal with various situations differently. A bit of humor never harmed anyone, so here are some really witty moving on quotes and sayings, that will make sense to the practical man, in his personal world of affairs: "Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then." - Katherine Hepburn "You know what is the worst thing about being rejected? The lack of control. If I could only control the where and how of being dumped, it wouldn't seem as bad." - High Fidelity by Nick Hornby "The problem with some women is that they get all excited about nothing - and then they marry him." - Cher "There is a good way to breakup with someone and it doesn't include a post-it." - Carrie, Sex and the City "Talk not to me: I will go and sit and weep. Till I can find occasion of revenge." - William Shakespeare, Taming of the Shrew "To survive it is often necessary to fight and to fight you have to dirty yourself." - George Orwell "I've had heartaches, headaches, toothaches, earaches, and I've had a few pains in the ass; but I've survived to tell about it." - Dolly Parton "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change." - Charles Darwin "Love is a gamble and we all love to play." "I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing." - Agatha Christie "If you can't change your fate, change your attitude." - Amy Tan "What kind of fear is it? Is it fear of poverty, of loneliness, of rejection? Then use common sense. Don't let the fear get infected. Often we burn 70 percent of our emotional energy on what we fear might happen (90 percent of which won't happen). By devoting our energy to our other emotions, we will heal naturally." - The Dharma King, Tibetan "I just broke up with someone and the last thing she said to me was "You'll never find anyone like me again!" I'm thinking, "I should hope not! If I don't want you, why would I want someone like you." - Larry Miller "You can't buy love, but you can pay heavily for it." - Henny Youngman "Love is a lot like a backache, it doesn't show up on X-rays, but you know it's there." - George Burns "What the world really needs is more love and less paperwork." - Pearl Bailey The third way of dealing with a bad breakup is to let it all out, there is no point in keeping it all locked up, its honestly bad for your heart, literally! Deal with it any way you like, it's up to you. But you got to clean out your closet, because if you don't, one day it will all come tumbling over you. So if you're really hurting, you should know that there are others who have shared similar experiences, they lived through it and now are better off. So shall you. "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional." - Haruki Murakami "Letting go has never been easy, but holding on can be as difficult. Yet strength is measured not by holding on, but by letting go." - Len Santos "Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together." "You have to forgive to forget, and forget, to feel again." "Time goes by so fast, people go in and out of your life. You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean to you." "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." - Alfred Lord Tennyson "The loss of love is not nearly as painful as our resistance to accepting it is." - Tigress Luv Everyone has their own way of dealing with situations. However, everyone needs inspiration in one form or another. Some seek refuge within themselves and rise again with newfound strength, while others speak their heart out, so that a trusted someone would listen. Sayings on letting go and moving on are for all those, who in their minutes of solitude and contemplation, can feel assured that they are not alone. "The heart was made to be broken." - Oscar Wilde "If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it." "Never be sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours." "If you can't save the relationship, at least save your pride." "In a world where you can be anything... be yourself." "Life is about change, sometimes it's painful, sometimes it's beautiful, but most of the time it's both ." "Don't be afraid of change; you may end up losing something good, but you will probably end up gaining something better." "At some point, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart, but not in your life." "You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose." - Dr. Seuss "The road of life twists and turns and no two directions are ever the same. Yet our lessons come from the journey, not the destination." - Don Williams Jr. "I'm only me. That is all I can be. No more, no less, don't second guess. I love, I live, I laugh, I cry. I've wished sometimes that I could die. Some days I'm funny, others I'm not, sometimes I'm in overdrive and I can't stop. You may not like me, but that's okay because this is me and how I'll stay." "Maybe some people just aren't meant to be in our lives forever. Maybe some people are just passing through. It's like some people just come through our lives to bring us something: a gift, a blessing, a lesson we need to learn. And that's why they're here. You'll have that gift forever." - Danielle Steel "The journey in between what you once were and who you are now becoming is where the dance of life really takes place." - Barbara De Angelis "You have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad. love what you got, and remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes but never regret. People change, things go wrong, but just remember life goes on." "It's not about who you've been with, it's about who you end up with. Sometimes, the heart doesn't know what it wants until it finds what it wants." "We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere." - Tim McGraw "Don't rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can't love and respect yourself - no one else will be able to make that happen. Accept who you are - completely; the good and the bad - and make changes as YOU see fit - not because you think someone else wants you to be different." - Stacey Charter Like every other thing in this world, relationships hold a very precarious guarantee. You can never be sure if things will last or not. Yet we all try, maybe out of hope or pure habit. Though, it would be so much better if we held on to the good times, so that it becomes easier to forgive others as well as ourselves for the things that went wrong.