"There is no remedy for love but to love more." - Henry David Thoreau Studies have proven, statistics have shown and ancestors have confirmed that women do not see or analyze love, they need to feel it. It's a good thing then that you want to do something really romantic for her. If in any doubt, these ideas will definitely assure her of your love for her. And then, don't just women love pampering? You see, women want nothing more than the attention, effort and love of a man. Too much you say? Well, there is nothing you can really do about it. But then, I think you know that already. Here are some romantic ideas that will show her she has all your attention, effort and of course, all the love! Clichés aren't bad after all! Well, you can say some things are clichés only because they're used way too often. But then, they're a guaranteed bet. One among these, is a candlelit dinner. Having a romantic dinner by the candlelight is said to be one of the most intimate experiences a couple shares. This just gets better if you arrange the dinner at your place and cook the food yourself. A bottle of good wine will just be a cherry on the top! It's the small things that matter... A candlelit dinner, or anything that extravagant can be arranged only once in a while. However, there is a need to show the love more than often, isn't it? There are a lot of small, lovely things you can do to impress your lady love. Drop her a message everyday in the morning and in the night. Leave a card for her outside her apartment. Show up with her favorite flower without an occasion. Take her on a drive and watch the stars! Passion is the Bull's Eye! Right from the way you talk about your relationship, to the way you plan things with your girlfriend, let the passion be visible. You don't have to do this 24x7, but when needed, you HAVE TO. Flaunt her, flaunt your love for her and let her know you're willing to tell the world how precious this relationship means to you. Go down on your knees at least once, dedicate a song to her in a pub, sing for her and make her feel wanted in every way you can. For her, romance is YOU! Girls asking their guys for more and more time and not getting enough is a fact that we just can't deny after all these years now, can we? This is because for us women, our romantic halves are nothing but love personified. More of it only completes us, and makes us more stable to tend to the small problems in the relationship, when you are busy winning the world for us. Spend time with your girlfriend just because you can, not because she wants you to. Go for movies every week, plan a fitness activity once in a while, a small trip every month will also be great! When it's least expected... Simple things turn special when you make them happen when least expected. Give her gifts, no matter how ordinary, when she's not expecting them. Show up at her doorstep with dinner once in a while. Pick her up for ice cream when she thinks you are busy somewhere else. Let her wake up to a nice message every few days. Get her her favorite chocolate just to show her that you know what makes her happy and are trying to do just that. Unique is Fantastic! Now we've spoken about clichés and all things that are common. Time to do something different! Give your girl a gift basket which has an assortment of things that she loves. A few of these things can be her favorite perfume, her favorite chocolates, movie DVDs, a coffee mug, and a small letter from you. If you're into a serious relationship, and about to tie the knot soon, you can even get a tattoo that has your girlfriend's name. Words Work! Are you someone who reads? Or is interested in poetry? Have the lyrics of a particular song made you think about your sweetheart? If yes, then you know how words have healing powers. Words are often underestimated, and why we don't know. But the combination of romance and a few well-said words is simply fantastic! Call your girlfriend one night and tell her to just listen to what you want to say (Umm...and not interrupt!). Slowly, and very genuinely recite a few lines from a poem/song that you think is something that you would say. Don't just go for the famous ones, she probably knows them too. It has to be something she hasn't heard before. Relive your Memories with her! What I like about photographs is that they capture a moment that's gone forever, impossible to reproduce. This quote by Karl Lagerfeld makes more sense that you think it does. With the competitive lifestyle that we live today, it is very easy for us to forget moments memorable. Reminding your girlfriend of such memories will certainly be a romantic affair, won't it? Make a movie comprising all your videos and photographs together, write a letter mentioning everything you guys have done, or literally take her down memory lane and visit places you had long long ago. Do what it takes to make her recollect all the love, and fall for you, yet again. Captured moments and more... Reliving memories is just one side of the coin. The other, more important part is creating them. One romantic and fun idea, is arranging a photo shoot for both of you as a couple. Hire a photographer and ask him to click you guys at different locations. Many couples do this just before they are about to get married and it's a brilliant idea. Go to places that hold a special place in your hearts and get yourselves clicked. You'll only add to the reservoir of lifetime memories. More than often we think of doing something and procrastinate thinking we have a lifetime to do them. Romance, if not kept alive, fades away eventually. The simplest way to keep the spark alive, is by doing what your heart tells you. Think of her? MSG her. Feeling like talking? Call her. Want to see her? Don't call, drop in. Like something for her? Buy it. Remember, Life is too short to plan everything.