interesting topics to talk about
Interesting Topics to Talk About
Many of us fumble when it comes to talking about something interesting with someone new. Here's an article that will give you some good topics, so that you're not lost the next time.
- What's the wackiest thing you've ever done?
- If you had to choose between a year on Mars, and a lifetime on Earth, all alone, what would you choose?
- The jacket you're wearing, where did you get it? My cousin wants one, and I can't seem to find one.
- Did you hear about the robbery at the bank (if you're from the same city)?
- What would you rather do - surf or ski?
- Which is your favorite sport?
- What kind of music do you like? (you can never go wrong with this one)
- Tell me 3 things about this place that you think I don't know.
- Where are you from? How do you like your life here?
- Do you think the trip to the moon was a hoax?
- Which is the last terrible movie you saw?
- What would you do if you were stuck in an elevator with Paris Hilton?
- Sugar or spice?
- If you could be at another place right at this moment, where would it be?
- What do you think is the most annoying thing that a girl can do?
- Do you think you share any traits with a celebrity?
- What do you think is the most life altering decision you've made?
- You can talk to her about a funny thing that happened to you, on your way to meet her. (just please make sure it really happened, and was really funny)
- Is there some specific reason why girls always go to the washroom in groups?
- Who's your favorite villain?
- Do you believe in vampires?
- What's the most absurd thing that you've heard about yourself?
- Tell her about a place that you visited in the near past, and IF she seems interested, ask her if she'd like to go there with you and a couple of friends the next time.
- Ask her what she does for a living, and how she enjoys it.
- What do you do to relax?
- What's your favorite TV show?
- What kind of movies do you like to watch?
- Do you know any good places to hang out? (to be asked only if you're new to the area, don't fake it please!)
- If you meet her at a place like an art gallery, or a bookshop, or some place that deals with a specific hobby, discuss a piece of art, or a book, or said hobby with her.
- Where do you think I'll get some good Italian/French/Japanese/Chinese/Thai/Indian (take your pick) food?
- If you're at a show, concert, book reading, exhibition, etc., make small talk about the artist.
- If you're meeting someone after a long time, then you have that long time gap to talk about, focusing on careers, love lives, family, etc.
- If it's someone that you don't really know very well, then you can safely discuss things like movies, music or art (provided you'll are both interested in the same topic).
- Another very easy topic to talk about with someone is to ask them what their hobbies are and when he or she tells you what it is, make sure you show interest (read ask relevant questions) in it and in the process, learn something useful for yourself as well.